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http://albinwonderland.com/post/83426802518/imreallybad-bisexual-people-passing-as-straight

imreallybad:

bisexual people passing as straight when they’re in a straight relationship is not “passing privilege.” it’s erasure. it’s assimilation.

that’s like saying that femme lesbians have privilege over butch lesbians. invisibility might keep people safer on a micro-level which is…

Friendly reminder that using “they/them” pronouns for someone who has specifically asked for another pronoun set is still misgendering (or degendering). Do not do this.

youcanthatemeifi:

weepinglesbian:

If no pronoun preference has been stated, then “they/them” is probably both safe and preferable to use, as it is the default “unknown” pronoun set. However, once someone has actually stated a pronoun set, you don’t get to use “they/them” without said person’s permission. You are not somehow being more inclusive by doing this. You are just a douchenozzle.

Or maybe they are good hearted people who can’t at the moment remember what pronoun preference was stated because sometimes it can be hard just to recall a person’s name. And it’s not a subconscious attempt on their part to deny or erase one’s stated gender identity.

That’s true. I felt like the OP was referring mostly to people who refuse to put effort into remembering a person’s pronouns and instead use “they/them” as the default. But if the person is genuinely trying to remember the correct pronouns, and it just slips their mind, then that’s another story. You’re right that we shouldn’t call people names for something like that. Thanks for bringing that up.

lunapics:

illogicalturtles:

skittle-happy-matt:

whiteboyfriend:

happy easter here’s a chocolate version of the cross our lord was tortured and killed on

it’s a metaphor, you see
you put the killing thing between your teeth

NO

Okay, this one actually made me laugh.

lunapics:

illogicalturtles:

skittle-happy-matt:

whiteboyfriend:

happy easter here’s a chocolate version of the cross our lord was tortured and killed on

it’s a metaphor, you see

you put the killing thing between your teeth

NO

Okay, this one actually made me laugh.

hiyokoizumi:

if you hav e a crush on me, please follow these steps:

  1. tell me
  2.  
  3.  
  4. PLEA S e
  5.  

(Source: transmaizono)

thetrekkiehasthephonebox:

dumbasschronicles:

princessjohnegbert:

the-midnight-screw:

My sister and I work in a restaurant, and after some disappointing goings-on, I have decided to make a helpful guide.

Please do this! Even at small places like Boston Market, where servers put down your food and clean up after you! Tips can really help out!

useful for foreigners eating in america, unless it’s fast food, you need to give a tip

If you can’t afford a 15% tip, you can’t afford to eat out.

Friendly reminder that using “they/them” pronouns for someone who has specifically asked for another pronoun set is still misgendering (or degendering). Do not do this.

weepinglesbian:

If no pronoun preference has been stated, then “they/them” is probably both safe and preferable to use, as it is the default “unknown” pronoun set. However, once someone has actually stated a pronoun set, you don’t get to use “they/them” without said person’s permission. You are not somehow being more inclusive by doing this. You are just a douchenozzle.

theysaythat-love-isforever:

wenchlatte:

thighhighdalish:

rurone:

zorobro:

Deep-Dish Chocolate Chip Cookie for One

 Ingredients (1 serving):

  • 1 Tbsp unsalted butter, at room temperature
  • 1/2 Tbsp unrefined granulated sugar, such as evaporated cane juice
  • 1/2 Tbsp packed light brown sugar
  • 1 Tbsp beaten egg, preferably organic (cover & chill remaining beaten egg for tomorrow’s cookie cup… you will be making another one!)
  • tiny splash pure vanilla extract
  • 2 1/2 Tbsp whole wheat pastry flour (can substitute with 3:1 of cake flour and all purpose flour)
  • 1/8 tsp baking soda
  • tiny pinch salt
  • heaping 1 Tbsp grain-sweetened chocolate chips, such as Sunspire

Instructions

In a small ramekin or microwavable cup, combine softened butter and both sugars; stir well with a spoon. Stir in beaten egg and vanilla extract. Stir in flour, baking soda, and salt just until combined. Stir in chocolate chips.

Microwave on high for 35-40 seconds. Let cookie rest at room temperature for about 10 seconds before devouring.

Nutritional Information:

253.2 calories, 13.8 grams fat, 8.4 grams saturated fat, 2.9 grams fiber, 17.5 grams sugars, 2.4 grams protein

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If I don’t reblog this, I will regret losing the recipe.

What she said

@elenilote

RIGHT! off to try this

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